Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Hello, again.

Hi all! Hope you had a wonderful weekend filled with friends and good times. Boy how times have changed. Where did my life go? In the last 5 years we have become the most unsociable couple I know. I am a super sociable person, but hubby just wants to hang around the house all.the.time.

I love being at home with just us too, but when your cruising FB and see all of your friends attending BBQ's and having a great time you wonder if your kinda missing out on something just a little.

Do any of you ladies have a man in your life that just dosent want to socialize with other couples? What have you done to try to fix this?

I love hanging out with other couples that have children and I am really am starting to miss it.


Monday, May 31, 2010

Welcome!

Hi! Welcome to my little escape from reality. This is the place I will bare it all....the good, the bad, and the ugly. It may not always be pretty, but it will be straight from the heart.

First off, I walk the fine line of being a working mama. Why? Not really cause I want to but I pretty much HAVE to. My husband works back breaking hard every day, but myself being the one in the family with the college education, I have seemed to take on the role as "the breadwinner". I don't really like that word----or the stress it carries with it, but it's here and I have to deal with it. It's hard, { I am sure any of you working mothers can give me a great big AMEN on that one} to find the time to do everything that you want to do and still stay sane.

My husband {God love him} does not help the situation AT ALL. I am a Christian woman who wants to honor her husband, but something has got to give. I can not work all day and then do all the things that are going to make him happy. I just can't. I can not have a garden fresh meal on my table every night.....and make breakfast and lunch.....and have the house spotless and spend quality time with them......BY MYSELF. I need help that I just ain't getting.

Hope some of you have the same trials and tribulations that I seem to get myself into so I don't feel like a total failure of a wife and mama.